I have previously posted about people being affected by what other people say. That time, if you recall, I was the one who did the talking.
Today I am posting from the side of the one who got the words thrown at him.
Words do hurt.
Especially when they come form someone who u value greatly as a person, and when the words are saying something you have been concious about and have been working very hard to change...and you knew you had managed.
It makes it worse that the person who said these words doesnt even know that I have been affected negatevely by them, and doesnt thing anything wrong was said.
I know in the last post about the power of words i had said that no one can be expected to always know when something they said caused offense...but i now realise one should, at least if not realise exactly which words caused offense, that offense was caused.
A bit of sensibility people..
...i know this blog kinda sounds sissy ish...but fuck, it's the truth.
On a different note:
Is it possible that there is someone who you just CAN'T get along with no matter how hard you try?
and last but not least..
A BIG BIG BIG Thank you to Louisa and their family for her hospitality last night...thanks a lot
Lamb and Chicken
26 comments:
Is that mig in the picture?
no that be me..cool isnt it?
They wait for me in the forest...
Yah sim, stuff sucks sometimes. Indeed. Muchly. But, it always passes, one way or another. Bah, i havent really got anything meaningful to say, stuff does suck sometimes, i think you know what i mean hehe.
A TREE!!! *flees*
I like your ninja pic. Very omgwtf1337.
Also, about all this offence thing. Just say you're offended. Here's how to say it:
"Hey [name], I really appreciate the fact that we're friends and know each other well enough to share our feelings. And it's because of this that I feel I need to tell you that when you said [whatever], I felt really hurt, because [whatever] is something I'm working hard on to improve myself, etc. In the future, I'd appreciate it if you avoided saying [whatever]."
Success guaranteed if you can pull it off! :D
erm chris...u wouldnt believe it...it did amazingly well...ill write bout it in the next blog.
...ok...not exactly those words
w00t!
Just glad it came in useful for once ^^
Yeah Ano how you feel. Sometimes you cannot get along with some people who you think are ideal for a good ol' solid friendship relation. But sometimes you can overcome this problem man - Ask Matt ;)
Sim...i tink ur friend Chris is right!:P wot dya tink? hihi ;)
God bless n tc ;)
Toodles!
Dezz
The above poster is the one who said the mean words to Simon...stone her
what?! u have no idea what u on about my friend...now who r u?
I am every woman's desire....i cause a woman to shiver, to moan, to orgasm in extacy....and im pretty good at chemistry too
Do you dare....to click? (Andrew dont click it pls thanks :))
http://img231.imageshack.us/img231/8109/poopoomx5.jpg
Every woman's desire? Sounds like Urpani to me.
Also, let he who has never accidentally insulted Simon cast the first stone.
looool eyyy man!!! if u av balls reveal urself nd if u dnt...well...well den just keep hidin (cos ur typical woman den...hehe!)
DEZZ.
Ps: im still waitin to see simon covered in stones!...lol(no i dnt want u to physically try dat out Sim!!!)lol
Toodles ;)
i tink u missed the point of chris' comment dezz, he means everyone at some point has accidently insulted me...so there will be no stone throwing
Dezz...u r short...go away WOMAN
Hey, it aint me!! (though thanks for the indirect comment chris :P). I'm pretty sure it's mark, sounds too much like him
oy! i will not have comments offending physical aspects on my blog...i will delete the comment next time! u have been warned
sim i got d point of chris comment...exactly...cos no 1 has thrown u a stone yet (as far as i know lool) not even ur anonymous blogger ;) hehe!;)
ok this guy must know me well to have specifically put WOMAN in caps! (evil!!)
loool ajma dezz!
toodles!;)
Dezz.
Ps:i know im short daa so its no means of offence lol!:P (tnx nyway sim lol;))
shut up matthew
ok..so it is mark...and its no problem dezz...any time lol...and ide like to point out, that not a lot of ppl offend me cause im touchy, its cause im surrounded by assholes lol, joking, love u all
Simon, I think it's time for a new blog... this conversation is way too long for my liking. Takes too long to read, they are annoying a friend of mine (Dezz), making me think badly of another riend of mine (Matt), Chris I don;t like ever since he caused me hunddreds of pounds counselling fees for my car and frankly, too many annonymous bloggers making my mind go all funny trying to figure them out, so STOP! Next blog Simon!
Ah... Your car... I miss it, it never returned my calls :'(
Sim pls tell Carl id luv 2 comment on his blog but its givin me problems since he doesnt let "anonymous" bloggers blog...(cos it tells me incorrect password after i just created one!and i made bout 3 Blogger Ids and passwords and it still says d same shit!) :(
Thanks! dnt forget! ;)
Dezz
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